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Gearing up for the First Date!!!

by S1m
First date

As Mini Me is with her father for a week or so and I am enjoying my free time, I found I had no excuses anymore, it was time to step it up a notch!
After a fun filled week of texting with Mr. B, some cheeky and some extremely cute (!!) it was time to arrange a first date. FIRST DATE!!! Arrr, the thought fills me with absolute dread and this is where my demons decide to make an unexpected appearance. Nevermind whether I like him, it’s all a question of will he like me? Is my butt too big? Am I too tall? Is he going to think I am crazy? Will he think my neck is too long? All these random questions which are apparent due to my insecurities about myself. I really do need to learn to love ME again. It’s all very easy for people to say that to me but for me to actually soak that information in and deal with that is a whole other ball game. When you haven’t had a “first date” for almost 10 years, you definitely revert back to a giddy schoolgirl state, where everything is over analysed and you can’t just sit back and savour the moment. The truth is… a lovely guy ACTUALLY wants to go on a date with me! Is he mad??!!

First date

 

I did have a positive moment this week, which made me feel fabulous about myself and helped to dust away some of the demons so it’s only a matter of time before my head is fully around the “will other men actually like me?” dilemma.
So next week… we are meeting for a casual drink, at a neutral venue, just nice and chilled and if all goes well we will take it from there. It will be hard, I am normally quite blunt with my questions (in a nice way obviously!) so it will be a time where my brain definitely has to engage before my mouth opens. I am looking forward to it lots and I already know we will get on, but if not then hey! There are certainly more fish in the sea!

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4 comments

Inside the Wendy House January 6, 2012 - 10:07 pm

Oh Gosh! Good Luck!! You are a gorgeous woman…any man will be very lucky to go on a date with you!!! XXX

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SFRProductReviews (Simone) January 6, 2012 - 10:22 pm

Thank you hun that means a lot!! Super excited!! :O) xx

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Emma January 6, 2012 - 10:11 pm

Is my butt too big? Too big for what?? Am I too tall? you are tall, well compared with my short arse Is he going to think I am crazy ? I hope so, afterall whats why we love you!!

Have fun xxxx

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SFRProductReviews (Simone) January 6, 2012 - 10:22 pm

LOL!!! Thanks my lovely!! Got to learn to love my booty!! :OP xx

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