What To Look Out For When Online Dating

What To Look Out For When Online Dating

If you have found yourself in a situation where you are considering giving online dating a try, then knowing where to start maybe a little confusing. You may have your profile pictures and online dating profile ready to be featured, but which site do you choose? A lot of dating sites these days have steretypes, you will have heard the horror stories, but hopefully all the positive stories from online dating too. Do not feel pressure into paying to join a site, there are many free online dating uk sites available that have lots of lovely prospective matches just waiting for you to join!

Be prepared for exciting times ahead and enough golden nuggets to provide you with content for a book! Whilst this may well be a new chapter in your life, just remember to have your wits about you! There are lots of lovely people also looking for love online and friendships will be formed on the way to finding the right partner, but here are some things that you should bear in mind before you delve into the world of looking for the one online!

What To Look Out For When Online Dating

What is ghosting?

What is Ghosting?

No, that doesn’t refer to your potential date turning into Casper, but even that would be less confusing! Ghosting in online dating terms refers to the person you have been messaging simply going AWOL without warning. You may find yourself waiting for a response to a message that never arrives. My advice? Don’t wait! I’m not suggesting message 10 people at the same time just in case, but certainly do not overthink the situation if you are ghosted. It is hard not to when you have already struck up and emotional bond, but chances are you will experience being ghosted at least once! This can happen before meeting for a date… and even after too!

Watch out for Online Dating Scammers

If something or someone seems too good to be true, trust your gut because it probably is! If you are messaging with someone who mentions needing money and makes waves to borrow from you… run for the hills! You are less likely to be scammed for money than to be ghosted, however it does happen. Never under any circumstances transfer money or provide bank details to someone you do not know! Sites such as Match Me Happy, which is free to join, makes sure all of their online daters are kept safe with a solid infrastructure and AI technology to ensure nasty scammers do not slip through the net to ruin your online dating experience.

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What does catfished mean?

Ever been on a date when the reality does not match the online version of your match? That ladies and gentleman, is what is known as being catfished! Simply put, a ‘catfish’ is someone who tries to be someone else online. It could be the use of someone else’s pictures, lying about height/ hobbies/ profession/ having a car/ having hair and even in some cases, lying about having children! Being catfished is certainly more common than the other online dating traits mentioned about and it is wise to be cautious. Perfect hiding your facial reactions in case you do meet a short, bald 50 year old when you were expecting a 25 year old, 6ft god/ess!

I hope these pointers have helped prepare you somewhat! Just be yourself and enjoy the rollercoaster ride that is online dating!

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This Post Has 12 Comments

  1. Joanna

    Unfortunately there are so many scammers out there, in the online dating world. People can pretend they are someone else, they can lie and talk to so many other potential matches in the same time. The worst is when emotional vulnerable people are taking advantage of by catfish and scammed in sending them money.

  2. Jenni

    Oh it seems like we need to be careful in so many aspects of our lives – these are great tips for what to look out for.

  3. Yeah Lifestyle

    With more and more people finding their life partners online, online dating has become a norm now. This post is so helful as it is good to know what signs to look out for.

  4. Sarah Bailey

    I can’t even imagine what it is like to online date now, I met Ash online years and years ago though not through a dating website. This is interesting when it comes to what to look out for if you are looking to meet the one online!

  5. Rebecca Smith

    These are some great tips. Its been a long while since I’ve tried online dating, I think I’d be a little scared to now!

  6. Rhian Westbury

    As so much of our lives are online now online dating just feels normal now, but some great tips. I’ve been ghosted a lot in the past so I know that feeling well x

  7. Tanita

    I have never tried online dating. But have a few friends who have and its worked out so well for them. xx

  8. Natasha Mairs

    These are really great tips. I’d be a bit wary of all the scammers there are now on online dating apps

  9. Liam Wilkinson

    Some great advice, for some this can be a scary process but for some its easier than face to face, however some excellent tips

  10. Kira

    Scott and I met through online AOL chat rooms 19 years ago . Wouldn’t have a clue how to online date now lol

  11. Laura Dove

    Great tips! I think more and more people are meetig parents on line these days! It’s a great way to meet someone if you’re careful!

  12. Jennifer Gladwin

    These are great tips. I know so many people who have met their spouses online dating despite some horror stories!

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